Episode 146 · October 20, 2026 · 43 min
Fear and your fitness goals: when to listen, when to push
Fear and your fitness goals: when to listen, when to push
Muscle Science for Women
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Show Notes
Fear, avoidance, perfectionism and voluntary discomfort: Ashleigh hosts solo this week and talks through how fear works in the brain and body, and how it shows up around fitness goals and your life in general.
She shares some of her own fears, and the fears listeners sent her on social media; covers the difference between fear and danger; how avoidance is actually beneficial (to a point); three questions to ask yourself when something feels scary and you're determining whether or not you should proceed, and much more.
Have a story about something you were afraid of and then overcame? Share it at musclescience4women@gmail.com and we might share it on the pod!
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05:43 What fear is
10:50 Fear versus danger
11:52 Fight, flight or freeze
14:10 Fear in fitness goals
15:17 The surprising benefits of avoidance
18:54 Procrastination and perfectionism
24:28 Three questions to ask when you're afraid
37:54 Fitness as a fear practice
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